9 But he said to me, "My grace is all you need. My power is strongest when you are weak." So I am very happy to brag about how weak I am. Then Christ's power can rest on me. 10 Because of how I suffered for Christ, I'm glad that I am weak. I am glad in hard times. I am glad when people say mean things about me. I am glad when things are difficult. And I am glad when people make me suffer. When I am weak, I am strong. (NIRV)
When raising kids, there are situations that make us feel inadequate because there is nothing we can do to "fix" the situation. Maybe our child's feelings were hurt when they were excluded from a party. Perhaps a love interest "dumped" them or they were cut from a team.
One of our biggest obstacles in trusting God is our own sense of strength. The truth is we can never be too weak for God to use us, but we can be too strong. When we recognize the limits of our control, however, we are much more likely to embrace our need for God.
Let your weaknesses become an opportunity to point your kids towards the real source of strength: dependence on Christ.
from Parenting by Design, 9/24/13